There is an old saying about respect that goes " to get respect you must earn respect". I am a strong believer of this particular saying because its true isn't it? I mean you’re not going to meet someone for the first time and then instantly respect the is you? No. The same goes trust, you’re not going to meet someone for the first time and tell them your deepest darkest secrets are you? There are different ways you can go about and earn someone's Trust and Respect like you can:
-Be nice to their face and behind there back (not a lot of people do that nowadays)
-Spend time with them and get to know them better and let them get to know you. -Give them your Trust and Respect if you feel that they deserve it.
-Be honest with the person.
There are multiple things you can do to earn someone's respect.
The reason why I am talking about this subject or "blogging" about It is because I see myself a very respectful person, I don't mean that I have everyone's respect (well I don't know if I do or not) but I mean I respect a lot of other people. By me respecting so many people that has led me to trusting so many people and maybe that has me trusting people I should not trust and that has brought me so the subject matter, I have trusted so many people that maybe I shouldn't off and they have told others what I have trusted them to keep secret. This has brought me to another old saying " Be careful who you vent to, a listening ear is also a running mouth". So the message that I am trying to get across is yes you can respect and trust people but don't give your respect away to easily it is a delicate thing and you don't want someone smashing it into tiny pieces and then that leads you to not trust and respect again.
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